Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) is one of the most misunderstood and underreported crimes across the globe—including in India. Despite growing awareness, misinformation and stigma continue to cloud public understanding, allowing the issue to remain hidden in plain sight. At Dil Se, we believe that the first step toward prevention and healing is awareness grounded in truth.
In this post, we unpack some of the most common myths surrounding CSA and replace them with facts—because knowledge is power, and protecting children starts with knowing better.
Myth 1: Child sexual abuse is rare.
Fact: CSA is alarmingly common. According to a 2007 Government of India study, over 50% of children reported experiencing some form of sexual abuse. And that’s just the reported numbers—many cases go unspoken due to fear, shame, or lack of awareness.
Myth 2: Strangers are the main perpetrators.
Fact: More than 90% of child sexual abuse is committed by someone the child knows and trusts—a family member, teacher, neighbour, or caregiver. This makes it more difficult for children to report and for adults to suspect.
Myth 3: Children lie about being abused.
Fact: Research shows that false allegations are extremely rare, especially among young children. Children often find it difficult to even articulate what happened, and when they do, it takes immense courage. Dismissing or doubting them causes further trauma.
Myth 4: Boys are not at risk of abuse.
Fact: CSA affects children of all genders. Boys are less likely to report abuse due to societal pressure around masculinity, which only increases their vulnerability. A truly protective society looks out for all children, regardless of gender.
Myth 5: Abuse always involves physical contact.
Fact: CSA includes a wide spectrum of behavior—from inappropriate comments and exposure to pornography to online grooming and coercive touching. Non-contact abuse can be just as damaging and must be taken seriously.
Why These Myths Matter
When society believes these myths, it enables silence and isolation. Survivors may struggle to come forward. Adults may fail to recognize or respond appropriately. Communities may ignore prevention altogether. Every myth upheld is a barrier to justice and healing.
What You Can Do
- Educate yourself and others. Share factual, accessible information on CSA.
- Believe children. If a child shares something with you, listen without judgment.
- Create open environments. Encourage dialogue at home, in schools, and in community spaces.
- Support safe touch education. Advocate for age-appropriate safety lessons in schools and parenting.
- Report and act. Familiarize yourself with the legal procedures and helplines. In India, CSA is a cognizable offence under the POCSO Act.
Together, We Can Make a Difference
Child sexual abuse thrives in silence and ignorance—but we can end that. By challenging myths and spreading awareness, we create safer environments where children are heard, believed, and protected.
Let’s replace fear with facts and shame with support. Join us at Dil Se in building a world where every child can grow up free from abuse and full of dignity.
Need Support?
If you or someone you know is dealing with CSA, please reach out to a mental health professional or a local support group. You are not alone.